Research
Lack of services, stigma leave male survivors of intimate partner violence without support, SFU study finds
Men experiencing intimate partner violence turn to harmful coping strategies due to limited services and persistent social stigma, according to a new 尤物视频 study.
Using survey data from the Statistics Canada General Social Survey on victimization as well as interviews with 16 male survivors, the study found men were significantly less likely to seek outside help compared to women.
鈥淲hen intimate partner violence happens to men, it often feels like they're left to cope alone,鈥� says Alexandra Lysova, SFU criminology professor and co-author of a . 鈥淢any deny the abuse, withdraw from social activities and relationships, and throw themselves into work to avoid what鈥檚 happening at home.鈥�
These avoidant strategies can prevent men from seeking support such as therapy or separation, she says. As a result, male survivors may experience worsening depression, substance misuse, and emotional distress, which can escalate the risks in the relationship.
This is especially concerning, says Lysova, because while violence is mainly bi-directional, women tend to experience the most severe consequences 鈥� 79 per cent of intimate partner homicide victims are women, for example.
This research highlights a critical gap in support services and the importance of addressing intimate partner violence as a human issue 鈥� not just a gendered one, Lysova argues.
"There is a lack of gender-inclusive public awareness campaigns, training and protocols for front-line professionals鈥攕uch as police, social workers and doctors鈥攚ho are often the first point of contact for someone seeking help,鈥� she explains. 鈥淓ven when governments issue reports or expand services, they typically highlight female victims, leaving male survivors invisible.鈥�
Helping male survivors will help society more broadly, in part by reducing risk factors for future violence perpetrated by those who witnessed intimate partner abuse as children, Lysova adds.
鈥淲hen we help men, we also help women and children -- and ultimately, society,鈥� Lysova explains. 鈥淎buse is abuse. We need to stop treating violence against women and violence against men as separate issues. Addressing violence in all its forms鈥攔egardless of the victim鈥檚 gender鈥攈elps create safer communities for everyone.鈥�
Non-physical signs of intimate partner abuse
Not all intimate partner abuse is physical, says Lysova. Abuse can be psychological, including coercive control and legal or administrative control, a relatively new term that describes using the legal system and other institutions, such as law enforcement, to maintain control over or ruin someone鈥檚 life. Non-physical signs of abuse include:
- Emotional withdrawal
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Financial control
- Social isolation
- Manipulation
Where to go for help
In Canada: If you or someone you know is experiencing intimate partner violence, you can find national and provincial resources at and:
- Canadian Centre for Men and Families:
- Canadian Suicide Prevention Service: 1.833.456.4566 or online at
U.S. resources:
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or online at
- The Network/La Red: 1.800.832.1901 or online at
- Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1.800.273.8255 or online at